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Tweens are a tricky age. They have mostly aged out of toys, but a lot of teen gifts are too much, too expensive or just not age appropriate.
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This list sticks to the middle: things a 9 to 12 year old can use right away, from science kits and card games to cozy gear and a first real gadget. I built it from published guides I read, mainly Reviewed's list of 47 tween gifts and Today's gift guide for 12 year olds, and only kept products those outlets actually named. Each pick says which outlet liked it and why. One tip: tweens care a lot about looking current, so ask a parent which color or character they like before you buy. When in doubt, pick a game or kit they can do with friends.
Who this is not for. If the person is already 13 or older, skip this list and head to the teen gifts page instead.
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Questions people ask
What are good gifts for a 10 year old?
Games, craft kits and science kits tend to be safe bets, and both Reviewed and Today list several. An instant camera or a Stanley-style tumbler suits kids who want something that feels more grown up.
What do 12 year olds actually want?
Today's guide for 12 year olds leans toward things they can show off or use with friends, like a skateboard, Crocs with charms, or a Kindle. Skincare and room decor also show up in the Reviewed list.
Are these gifts okay for boys and girls?
Yes. I mixed the list on purpose and did not split it by gender. Games, science kits, cameras and outdoor gear work for any tween.
Where do I look for a gift that is not a gadget?
Card games like Exploding Kittens, craft kits and journals are good low-screen options. They also work well for a group of friends.
When should I order so it arrives by Christmas?
USPS's recommended last send dates for December 25 in the contiguous US are December 17 for Ground Advantage, December 18 for Priority Mail and December 19 for Priority Mail Express. Retailers set their own order-by dates, so check at checkout.